an uncle

Uncle

has been painting "Young Pi" recently, and his deepest feeling is the marriage life of chicken feathers interpreted by Zhang Jiayi and Yan Ni.

Yan Ni's hostess, who often talks about divorce, is angry with Zhang Jiaye from time to time and regrets: "Why did I marry you in the first place?"

this self-doubt, I believe, will make many readers smile.

once we all fantasized about a romantic and sweet life, but when we really got married, we found that there were so many moments that you wanted to run away.

Mr. Qian Zhongshu once said, "

Marriage is a besieged city, people outside the city want to go in, people in the city want to get out

" is probably a true portrayal of the marriage life of many people today.

Today, Uncle will take you into

"besieged Fortress"

, taste the love and hatred of sentient beings in the book to solve the doubts for all who are inside and outside the besieged Fortress.

-01-

Life comes and goes,

Marriage is a besieged city

from the amorous Miss Pao to her college classmate Su Wen-wan, from the clever and lovely Tang Xiaofu to the ordinary and simple Sun Jou-chia, the protagonist Fang Hung-chien plans to rush into the besieged city several times and retreats several times.

later, Fang Hung-chien abandoned the red rose with thorns, alienated the delicate crabapple flowers, left the untouchable white moonlight, and married the most mundane carnation.

he began to look forward to the little happiness of ordinary peace, but it was not as simple as imagined to live a real life.

what's more, who in this world can make the right choice once and for all?

if you choose true love, you may worry, run and wipe away tears because of the fuel and salt of your life; if you choose the rich, you may feel that you have no strength, dignity and sense of security in this marriage.

if you choose to take care of your family, you may dislike him for being unenterprising and too loser; if you choose to focus on your career, you may complain about your lack of companionship.

in fact, no matter who you marry, there will be regrets; no matter who you live with, there will always be friction.

the long-term proposition of marriage requires you to write slowly with the best tenderness and patience.

it is not easy for you to understand him more, she takes more care of your emotions, and you tolerate each other's small shortcomings and temper, so that this marriage can go a little longer, a little longer.

-02-

do you have a good relationship,

you can know it on one trip

when Fang Hung-chien went to Sanlu University with his friends Chao Hsin-mei and Sun Jou-chia, he experienced "9981 difficulties" on the way and saw all kinds of things in the world.

under such difficult circumstances, Fang Hung-chien still took care of Sun Jou-chia's mood in the name of a friend. Probably from then on, Sun Jou-chia saw his sense of responsibility and had a secret affection.

in fact, whether a person is worthy of being entrusted for life or not can be known by traveling with him once.

through the little thing of travel, you can not only deeply understand a person's character, values, and even character, but also run-in the relationship between two people during the journey.

as Qian said in besieged Fortress:

"

Travel is the most tiring and troublesome time to show the truth. Only people who travel hard for a long time and don't hate each other can make friends. "

in real life, Qian Zhongshu also uses his own actions to prove the significance of travel.

when Qian Zhongshu and Yang Jiang were studying together in England, Qian Zhongshu had secretly made breakfast when Yang Jiang was still sleeping. Never thought that he, who was "clumsy" in the past, would learn to boil eggs, bake bread and make black tea for Yang Jiang.

and the breakfast he made with his own hands was happily called "the best breakfast I have ever had" by Yang Jiang.

No matter how hard the days are, Qian Zhongshu boils out a pot of warm purity; no matter how hard the trip is, Yang Jiang is patient.

do not lose patience because of the long journey, do not blame each other because of exhaustion, do strategies together during the journey, enjoy the scenery, face all the difficulties and dangers, the tacit understanding is more than before, probably the best appearance of marriage.

-03-

is it true love,

Let's see if he will act coquettish to you

"in front of the man you love, every woman has the stunt of rejuvenation." for this sentence, the uncle is very proud.

the steady Sun Jou-chia in the book gradually became a little childish and not so sensible in front of Fang Hung-chien.

when she sees Su Wen-wan, Fang Hung-chien's old lover, she will lose her temper.

after feeling the insolence of the Sun family, she will complain angrily;

even when she saw him spending more time with his male friend Chao Hsin-mei, she would have a sulk.

who is born with a good temper? Only when I really love you will I guard your innocence and tolerate your capriciousness.

in real life, those who are accustomed to your vexatiousness and making trouble and are even willing to bow their heads and take the initiative to admit defeat are only because they are full of love for you and regard you as very important.

it is easy to fall in love, but it is not easy to get along with each other. If you want to live for a long time, you must learn the art of yielding to softness and the wisdom of tolerance.

-04-

A good marriage cannot be poor.

the ending of "besieged Fortress" is rather lonely:

06:00 is five clocksAt that time, Hung-chien was on his way home, intending to be kind to Jou-chia and advising her not to upset the couple by what happened yesterday.

has been painting "Young Pi" recently, and his deepest feeling is the marriage life of chicken feathers interpreted by Zhang Jiayi and Yan Ni.

Yan Ni's hostess, who often talks about divorce, is angry with Zhang Jiaye from time to time and regrets: "Why did I marry you in the first place?"

this self-doubt, I believe, will make many readers smile.

once we all fantasized about a romantic and sweet life, but when we really got married, we found that there were so many moments that you wanted to run away.

Mr. Qian Zhongshu once said, "

Marriage is a besieged city, people outside the city want to go in, people in the city want to get out

" is probably a true portrayal of the marriage life of many people today.

Today, Uncle will take you into

"besieged Fortress"

, taste the love and hatred of sentient beings in the book to solve the doubts for all who are inside and outside the besieged Fortress.

-01-

Life comes and goes,

Marriage is a besieged city

from the amorous Miss Pao to her college classmate Su Wen-wan, from the clever and lovely Tang Xiaofu to the ordinary and simple Sun Jou-chia, the protagonist Fang Hung-chien plans to rush into the besieged city several times and retreats several times.

later, Fang Hung-chien abandoned the red rose with thorns, alienated the delicate crabapple flowers, left the untouchable white moonlight, and married the most mundane carnation.

he began to look forward to the little happiness of ordinary peace, but it was not as simple as imagined to live a real life.

what's more, who in this world can make the right choice once and for all?

if you choose true love, you may worry, run and wipe away tears because of the fuel and salt of your life; if you choose the rich, you may feel that you have no strength, dignity and sense of security in this marriage.

if you choose to take care of your family, you may dislike him for being unenterprising and too loser; if you choose to focus on your career, you may complain about your lack of companionship.

in fact, no matter who you marry, there will be regrets; no matter who you live with, there will always be friction.

the long-term proposition of marriage requires you to write slowly with the best tenderness and patience.

it is not easy for you to understand him more, she takes more care of your emotions, and you tolerate each other's small shortcomings and temper, so that this marriage can go a little longer, a little longer.

-02-

do you have a good relationship,

you can know it on one trip

when Fang Hung-chien went to Sanlu University with his friends Chao Hsin-mei and Sun Jou-chia, he experienced "9981 difficulties" on the way and saw all kinds of things in the world.

under such difficult circumstances, Fang Hung-chien still took care of Sun Jou-chia's mood in the name of a friend. Probably from then on, Sun Jou-chia saw his sense of responsibility and had a secret affection.

in fact, whether a person is worthy of being entrusted for life or not can be known by traveling with him once.

through the little thing of travel, you can not only deeply understand a person's character, values, and even character, but also run-in the relationship between two people during the journey.

as Qian said in besieged Fortress:

"

Travel is the most tiring and troublesome time to show the truth. Only people who travel hard for a long time and don't hate each other can make friends. "

in real life, Qian Zhongshu also uses his own actions to prove the significance of travel.

when Qian Zhongshu and Yang Jiang were studying together in England, Qian Zhongshu had secretly made breakfast when Yang Jiang was still sleeping. Never thought that he, who was "clumsy" in the past, would learn to boil eggs, bake bread and make black tea for Yang Jiang.

and the breakfast he made with his own hands was happily called "the best breakfast I have ever had" by Yang Jiang.

No matter how hard the days are, Qian Zhongshu boils out a pot of warm purity; no matter how hard the trip is, Yang Jiang is patient.

do not lose patience because of the long journey, do not blame each other because of exhaustion, do strategies together during the journey, enjoy the scenery, face all the difficulties and dangers, the tacit understanding is more than before, probably the best appearance of marriage.

-03-

is it true love,

Let's see if he will act coquettish to you

"in front of the man you love, every woman has the stunt of rejuvenation." for this sentence, the uncle is very proud.

the steady Sun Jou-chia in the book gradually became a little childish and not so sensible in front of Fang Hung-chien.

when she sees Su Wen-wan, Fang Hung-chien's old lover, she will lose her temper.

after feeling the insolence of the Sun family, she will complain angrily;

even when she saw him spending more time with his male friend Chao Hsin-mei, she would have a sulk.

who is born with a good temper? Only when I really love you will I guard your innocence and tolerate your capriciousness.

in real life, those who are accustomed to your vexatiousness and making trouble and are even willing to bow their heads and take the initiative to admit defeat are only because they are full of love for you and regard you as very important.

it is easy to fall in love, but it is not easy to get along with each other. If you want to live for a long time, you must learn the art of yielding to softness and the wisdom of tolerance.

-04-

A good marriage cannot be poor.

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the ending of "besieged Fortress" is rather lonely:

06:00 is five clocksAt that time, Hung-chien was on his way home, intending to be kind to Jou-chia and advising her not to upset the couple by what happened yesterday.

this outdated timing inadvertently contains satire and sadness about life, which is deeper than all words and laughter. "

such a lonely language can not help but make people feel sorry.

all parting is premeditated for a long time. If the quarrel is the rock on the level of their marriage, then the lack of money is the undercurrent at the bottom.

when they got married, they spent all the money around them and got a generous gift from a friend.

Hung-chien did not have a career for a long time and still needed her wife to earn money to support his family.

when Jou-chia went to live with her mother-in-law, she could only squeeze into a dark, narrow room with only a cot.

when he was down and out, Hung-chien only wanted to rely on his friends for help again and again, but he forgot that he had to work hard.

all this, the two have long been secretly hostile, but the last quarrel was the last straw that killed the camel.

Women can accept a man's temporary hardship, but she can't stand a man's poor heart.

marrying a poor man will only be hard for a while, but marrying a poor man will be bitter for a lifetime.

A good marriage is a "perfect match" between family background and mental appearance.

at any time, you should remember that marriage is not about children living from house to house, but to real life such as food, clothing, housing and transportation.

-05-

write at the end

it is said that art comes from life and is higher than life, but Qian Zhongshu's Fortress besieged depicts the true appearance of marriage with vivid strokes.

this is not only a portrait of the world, but also a marriage textbook.

he and Yang Jiangben were also members of the besieged city, but they made the wall into glass and lived a very thorough life. Their love is as beautiful as glass.

May you and I understand the true meaning of companionship from Fortress besieged, learn strength from Qian Lao's marriage, understand each other's difficulties, and be grateful for each other's efforts.

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